Does she have to be so whiny and jealous of her brother? I mean, he comes in to help her cook when she's exhausted, and instead of thanking him, she gets annoyed. She actually has the gall to grit her teeth because he's being helpful. Can't she just stop complaining about it and buckle down and try to be more like him, to cheerfully make herself a better person? Or at the very least, stop whining about not being like him and instead, recognize that this isn't who she is, and she should go to the Dauntless already???